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No financial maintenance is due to you upon him

عن فاطمة بنت قيس- رضي الله عنها- «أن أبا عمرو بن حفص طلقها البَتَّةَ، وهو غائب (وفي رواية: "طلقها ثلاثا")، فأرسل إليها وكيله بشعير، فسخطته. فقال: والله ما لك علينا من شيء. فجاءت رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم فذكرت ذلك له، فقال: ليس لك عليه نفقة (وفي لفظ: "ولا سكنى") فأمرها أن تَعْتَدَّ في بيت أم شريك؛ ثم قال: تلك امرأة يَغْشَاهَا أصحابي؛ اعتدي عند ابن أم مكتوم. فإنه رجل أعمى تضعين ثيابك، فإذا حَلَلْتِ فآذِنِيني. قالت: فلما حللت ذكرت له: أن معاوية بن أبي سفيان وأبا جهم خطباني. فقال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم : أما أبو جهم: فلا يَضَعُ عصاه عن عاتقه. وأما معاوية: فصعلوك لا مال له. انكحي أسامة بن زيد. فكرهته ثم قال: انكحي أسامة بن زيد. فنكحته، فجعل الله فيه خيرا، واغْتَبَطْتُ به».

Explanation

Abu ‘Amr ibn Hafs divorced his wife Fātimah bint Qays irrevocably, and it was the third and last time to divorce her. The woman who is irrevocably divorced has no right to receive financial maintenance from her husband, yet he sent her some barley. She thought that as long as she was in her post-divorce waiting period ‘Iddah, her maintenance was due to her upon him, so she thought the barley was too little and hated it. He, thus, swore that nothing was due to her upon him.

She complained about this to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and he informed her that he was not obliged to provide for her or provide her with accommodation. Then he ordered her to spend her ‘Iddah in the house of Umm Sharīk.

When he remembered that the Companions frequently visit the house of Umm Sharīk, he ordered Fātimah to spend her ‘Iddah at the house of Ibn Umm Maktūm, because he was a blind man and would not see her when she would take off her clothes. He ordered her to inform him when her ‘Iddah would be over. When she completed her ‘Iddah, both Mu‘āwiyah and Abu Jahm proposed to her, so she consulted the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him).

As sincere advice is mandatory – especially for the one who seeks counsel – the, Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) did not advise her to marry any of them, since Abu Jahm was harsh with women and Mu‘āwiyah was poor and penniless. Instead, he ordered her to marry Usāmah, but she disliked that because he was a freed slave. However, she obeyed the command of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and accepted Usāmah.

She was pleased with him, and Allah placed a great deal of good in him.

Source

- صحيح البخاري –الجامع الصحيح-؛ للإمام أبي عبد الله محمد بن إسماعيل البخاري، عناية محمد زهير الناصر، دار طوق النجاة، الطبعة الأولى، 1422هـ. - صحيح مسلم؛ للإمام مسلم بن الحجاج، حققه ورقمه محمد فؤاد عبد الباقي، دار عالم الكتب-الرياض، الطبعة الأولى، 1417هـ. - الإلمام بشرح عمدة الأحكام للشيخ إسماعيل الأنصاري-مطبعة السعادة-الطبعة الثانية 1392ه. - تيسير العلام شرح عمدة الأحكام-عبد الله البسام-تحقيق محمد صبحي حسن حلاق- مكتبة الصحابة- الشارقة- الطبعة العاشرة- 1426ه.
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